HOW TO BOOST CONFIDENCE

Confidence seems to be a challenge for almost 73% of the whole human race. First of all WHAT IS CONFIDENCE? and WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO BE CONFIDENT? If you have ever asked yourself those two questions then relax and read up until the end of this article because I am going to break it down for you. Some people define confidence as the ability to deal with work and some say it is being certain that something will happen but both those theories and a lot more are not my definition of confidence. I personally define confidence simply as believing in yourself and in your abilities and capabilities. Never wait for someone to first believe in you so that you can start believing in yourself. Just master that the power to control what people think about you is in your hands. Confidence is not something that you learn it is something that you build. You do not need a set of rules to learn to be confident and all you need is just something priceless, your 'mind'. You just need to put your mind to it to achieve it. 

Why is confident important? Like I have said above that the power to control what people think about you is in your hands, you got it right! Confidence has the power to change circumstances around you. It also helps take away the feeling of self hate. With confidence you are able to walk on top of the world because you are not afraid of failure. you completely believe in what you can do and believe that you can achieve the goal. It takes only confidence to fight all of your fears but come to think of it, if you were confident would you not have written that book by now, would you not have started that business that you ended giving up on because you just felt you were never going to make it through. You can possibly do a whole lot of things with confidence and no one can stop you. The motto i have grasped over the years to building confidence is LET NO ONE TALK YOU DOWN. Its a powerful one and start singing it and walking the lyrics then boom!!! failure will not scrub your back everyday.

Unfortunately confidence does not come over night. It is a process but I am here to guide you through that process and don't be scared because it is easy. Everyone I have guided through has mastered it with ease so why can't you. Below are things to do to build confidence and make sure you go through each and every point, understand it and apply it. There are definitely no shortcuts to this, laziness doesn't yield anything positive.tips......

• do not give up!!!

• know who you are- this will help you fight what people think about you

• believe in yourself - one thing for sure and take heed to this 'no one will ever believe in yourself unless you do

• fight your fears everyday - if you are someone who is always afraid of heights then take a day to fly in a plane (just an example). Find ways to conquer you fears every single day of this journey.

• get things done - do not run away from tasks just because you think you will fail instead strengthen yourself and volunteer to be the one to do that particular task until you get it right. They always say "try, try, try and try again"

• push away self criticism you are way better than what you think

• do not regard yourself lowly - never look down upon yourself but on this point always remember to stay humble

• do not let failure bring you back to the ground, fail and work to go two steps further.

• look your best - to some this may sound lame but believe me you the moment you feel that you are looking as good as you can then you won't be afraid to stand in front of an audience and deliver your package.

• smell good always - you don't want to whisper to someone and they shun you away because you have smelly breath.That is an embarrassing scenario that you wouldn't want to face.

• last but not least tell others about your journey and embark on teaching them. That will definitely encourage you to keep on working on yourself.

WISH YOU A HAPPY CONFIDENCE BOOSTING